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March 9, 2023 | Leave a Comment

Confidence!

(Adapted from Sunday message, March 5, 2023)

Confidence. I always picture Julie Andrews in The Sound of Music, dancing her way down the road to introduce herself as the Von Trapp family’s new governess. “I have confidence in confidence alone. Besides, which you see I have confidence in me!” she sings jauntily.

It doesn’t last long when faced with 7 children, a captain with a dog whistle, and a Nazi butler. Oh, and the frog. I can’t forget the frog in her pocket. Confidence is a fragile flower.

There’s another, far more durable confidence that comes with faith in Christ, when we know and trust the essential, inescapable, and most beautiful truth that God the Father sacrificed Jesus the Son to reconcile us to Himself.

Not too long ago, my daughter was on her way to New Mexico for a service learning trip with her college. She was studying water and water filtration systems. Two days into the trip, she came down with a nasty case of COVID. Into isolation, she went.

There was a point in time, later in the week, when I was not at all convinced that there was anyone in New Mexico looking out for her on the campus where she was staying, especially when the rest of her group was supposed to take off overnight for the Grand Canyon. I did not want her there by herself with her oxygen levels unsteady.

I called and started quizzing her. Who’s going to be there? What are their names? How close will they be? “So help me,” I muttered, ‘if they leave you alone there on the campus with a pile of pop tarts outside your door, there are a few choice phone calls I’m going to be placing to your college administration…” You get the idea. Crazy mama was coming out.

My daughter got quiet for a moment and told me she was sending me a screenshot.

It was from a woman named Eryn, a local woman who’d driven her to the hospital on Wednesday afternoon.

The texts from Eryn began, “You won’t be alone.” There was a long description of where she’d be and when, and finally, at the bottom of the text, “I’m here for you!” Exclamation point.

Okay. Crazy mama could breathe again.

I think that’s pretty close to the message God is trying to get through our thick heads in Romans 8:38-39 when Paul writes, “I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

You won’t be alone, God is saying. I’m here for you!

With that knowledge, with that reassurance, really, is there anything we can’t do? The answer, friends, is no. Exclamation point.

 

Courage, Jesus Christ, Parenting Tagged: Confidence, COVID, motherhood


December 23, 2022 | Leave a Comment

Happy Christmas Eve Eve

I’ve been wishing a “Happy Christmas Eve Eve” since long before Phoebe made it famous on Friends.

Christmas Eve Eve was a real thing in my house growing up. Christmas Day, even Christmas Eve, weren’t enough to contain what was the biggest event in our year. We started prepping for it in the springtime, planning gifts, making lists, and dreaming of the thrill. The year that my sister sewed me a life-sized doll? She started it on Valentine’s Day. Really.

We needed more than a day or even two to feel that sense of expectation. By Christmas Eve Eve, we were buzzing.

As real as the sense of expectation, though, was the sense of disappointment that descended by mid-morning on Christmas Day. Gifts opened, breakfast eaten, musical still playing on repeat for the seventy-sixth time, there was nothing more but to pick through the piles of opened gifts and wonder what came next.

What we celebrated was a holiday, not a holy day. It was an event on the calendar for giving and getting stuff that was supposed to signify the love we felt for each other in ways that our poor, emotionally grifting family couldn’t otherwise express.

I suspect it’s the same for many, but the gifts can’t fill a space intended for the manger. The food can’t fill empty hopes.

Christmas is, was and always will be a holy day if it is anything. We need to celebrate it as such or not at all.

So, no, a day or even two can’t contain the biggest event in history. So, I’ll go ahead and wish a Happy Christmas Eve Eve to everyone today, but with expectation of a different sort—expectation of love that doesn’t need gifts to prove its worth, expectation of joy that doesn’t end when the wrapping paper’s off, expectation of a Christ Child who will come again to heal us all.

Christmas, Expectation, Hope, Jesus Christ Tagged: Christmas Eve Eve, Friends, gifts, holiday


November 29, 2022 | Leave a Comment

Advent 1: Do Not Fear

“The extraordinary thing that is about to happen is matched only by the extraordinary moment just before it happens. Advent is the name of that moment.” -Frederick Buechner

I was a little surprised one day, visiting an older couple, to find myself sitting on brand-new living room furniture. This sweet couple was of modest means, and I didn’t remember their previous living room furniture being raggedy at all, so why the splurge? They told a story.

A friend of theirs, decades ago, had fallen on hard times financially and asked them for a loan. They didn’t have much, but they gave him what they had. It couldn’t have been more than a few hundred dollars. He promised he would pay them back, but, as happens, time passed, and they lost touch. They had not heard of him or from him for years, until a letter arrived in the mail with a check for $2000. He’d sussed out their address, adjusted for inflation, and sent along a note. “I bet you thought I’d forgotten,” he’d written, “but I never forget a promise.”

God really never forgets a promise. Through the ages, over centuries and moment to moment, God has remained faithful to his people. He’s faithful to us still now. 

“So do not fear, for I am with you,” God told us through the prophet Isaiah, “do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10)

Do not fear? Easier said than done, right? There’s so much in the world that could reasonably terrify us? How do we trust God enough to let go of the fear?

The key to begin letting go of the fear is to take the long view of life, of history, and of ourselves. Even this famous verse from Isaiah 41:10 takes the long view of God’s faithfulness, all the way back to Abraham. More than that, these words point us forward to Jesus: our champion and defender who sets us free from the fear of death. It’s Jesus who promises a day when every tear will be wiped away, “There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain” (Revelation 21:4).

The testimony of the past and the promise of the future are embedded in the story we tell every year of Jesus’ birth. It’s the story of a promise of a better, brighter, painless future. It’s a beautiful vision of tomorrow. 

Do not fear, friends, because God is with us. He will strengthen us and help us. He will uphold us with his righteous right hand.

Whatever big job or little task we have in front of us, whatever niggling fear is keeping us from that proverbial first step, whatever ridiculous doubt of our own worthiness is whispering to us today, God is with us.

That’s a promise, and God never breaks a promise.

Advent, Courage, Fear, Jesus Christ, Prophet Isaiah Tagged: Advent, fear, furniture, memory


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This is the day that
the Lord has made;
let us rejoice
and be glad in it.

– Psalm 118:24
Rev. Dr. MJ Romano

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